Let $H$ be a complex, infinite dimensional Hilbert space and let $A,B : H \rightarrow H$ be unitary operators such that $\langle A x , x \rangle = \langle B x ,x \rangle$ for all $x \in H$. Does it follow that $A = B$?
If $A$ is the identity operator, this is true since in that case, $$ ||x - Bx||^2 = ||x||^2 - 2 \Re{\langle Bx , x \rangle} + ||Bx||^2 = ||x||^2 - 2 \langle x,x \rangle + ||x||^2 = 0 $$
However, I don't think that one can reduce to this case by considering $AB^{-1}$ or $B A^{-1}$.
My notes say that one should use the polarization identity
$$\langle x , y \rangle = \frac{1}{4}(||x + y||^2 + ||x-y||^2 + i ||x + i y||^2 - i ||x-i y||^2)$$ but I don't see how.
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to get proper double norm bars. – joriki Jan 15 '23 at 23:16