Key Idea $ $ If field F has $2\,$ F-linear independent combinations of $\rm\, \sqrt{a},\ \sqrt{b}\, $ then
we can solve for $\rm\, \sqrt{a},\ \sqrt{b}\, $ in F. For example, the Primitive Element Theorem
works that way, obtaining two such independent combinations by
Pigeonholing the infinite set $\rm\ F(\sqrt{a} + r\ \sqrt{b}),\ r \in F,\ |F| = \infty,\,$
into the finitely many fields between F and $\rm\ F(\sqrt{a}, \sqrt{b}),\,$ e.g. see this proof.
In this case it is simplest to notice $\rm\ F = \mathbb Q(\sqrt{a} + \sqrt{b})\ $ contains the independent $\rm\ \sqrt{a} - \sqrt{b}\ $ since
$$\rm \sqrt{a}\ -\ \sqrt{b}\ =\ \dfrac{\ a\,-\,b}{\sqrt{a}+\sqrt{b}}\ \in\ F = \mathbb Q(\sqrt{a}+\sqrt{b}) $$
To be explicit, notice that $\rm\, u = \sqrt{a}+\sqrt{b},\ v = \sqrt{a}-\sqrt{b}\in F\, $ so solving the linear system for the roots yields $\rm\, \sqrt{a}\ =\ (u+v)/2,\ \ \sqrt{b}\ =\ (u-v)/2,\, $ both of which are clearly $\rm\,\in F,\,$ since $\rm\,u,v\in F\,$ and $\rm\,2\ne 0\,$ in $\rm\:F,\:$ so $\rm\,1/2\:\in F.\,$ This works over any field where $\rm\,2\ne 0\,\,$ i.e. where the determinant (here $\,2)\,$ of the linear system is invertible, i.e. where the linear combinations $\rm\:u,v\:$ of the square-roots are linearly independent over the base field.